If your looking online for a sweetheart, beware. You might find a new meaning for the expression " money can't buy you love." The National Consumers League has issued a warning to people looking for love on the internet to watch out for con artists whose only mission is to separate the lookers and their cash.

" Scammers lurk in chat rooms and on online dating sites, attempting to earn someone's affections and trust so that they can persuade him or her to send money," said Sally Greenberg, executive director of the National Consumers League. The League, a nonprofit consumer advocacy group, is calling such scams the " Sweetheart Swindle." It's a simple scheme really. The con artist spends time nurturing a relationship. The goal of this online courtship is to eventually get the victim to repeatedly send cash.

Greenberg said the group's Fraud Center only began tracking this type of scam last summer. However, it's become so pervasive that the organization says it has moved into its Top 10 list of scams. Last year, the average lovesick victim lost more than $3,000, according to complaints logged at the center's Web site (www.fraud.org). The scams vary, but the typical swindler will begin to weave a tale of how he (or she) has gotten into a financial jam. Feeling sorry for their online lover, the victim eventually sends money.

In one case, a woman gave $35,000 to a man she met on Match.com, who claimed he was from her hometown of Kansas City, MO. He said he worked as an engineer in Nigeria. For four months the two had long online exchanges, much like you have at the beginning of a courtship. He even sent her flowers and professed his love for her. Then the man began requesting money to pay for medical care for his 11 year old son, whom he claimed had a congenital heart condition.

It was all a con. Eventually the woman took out a second mortgage on her home to pay off the credit cards she used to get advances to send him money. " I'm not a stupid woman, " she said, ' I have a master's degree. I hold down a good job." But, she said, she felt sorry for the kid. " That was where my heart strings were." If your inclined to be harsh on these victims, don't be so smug to think this couldn't happen to you. " Scammers are really good at figuring out and preying on the vulnerabilities of the people they are scamming. "

The Consumers League said if you want to avoid heartache from a sweet talking swindler, look for these red flags.
* You are being asked for money.
* There is a confession of love soon after you begin communicating.
* The person claims to be a U.S. citizen who is living abroad. Or they pump up their professional credentials.
* The person wants you to help with their business or get involved in a business deal.

DAMMIT, THIS BLOWS MY WHOLE SCAM, JUST WHEN I WAS GETTING READY TO ASK FOR A LOAN.!!